Baggage Boy ...
I keep asking this girl to dance and she keeps saying "no" every single time. What should I do??? - Baggage Boy"
... a few days later.
This guy that reminds me of my ex keeps asking me to dance and I keep refusing. What should I do???. - Baggage Lady"
... a few days later... from Baggage Boy:
I took your advice and stopped asking her to dance. A few nights later, she came up to me, apologized and told me I reminded her of her ex. I just looked at her and said, "Well, I'm not your ex." She then grabbed my hand, pulled me on the dance floor and we both had an awesome dance together. I guess she just needed
"time" to get over him. Here I thought it was "me". It really wasn't. It wasn't "her" either. I blamed her, she blamed her ex, then she blamed me, then I felt bad... all because of some guy that is probably perfectly happy with someone else right now, and has NO IDEA how his past existence in HER MIND has affected and tormented both "me" and HER!! Geez. "
Just goes to show how much we need to ELIMINATE our BAGGAGE as soon as possible so others won't get hurt when we THROW IT AROUND like that.
- Edie, The Salsa FREAK!!