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Here Edie, The Salsa FREAK!! Takes you on a journey through your mind, showing you the possibilities of your life based upon her vast experience of her own relationships and the relationships of others as well.

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  • Dying to Dance

    Dying to Dance


    "Dear Edie the Salsa Freak, I'm having a major problem. I just moved from lively [Big City], to a quiet and quaint [small town],. Back in [Big City] I took some Salsa classes and fell in love with the sport of it. There is a dance at the state park this coming weekend and I am going to it. My boyfriend, on the other hand, said that, and I quote, he "doesn't want to look like a fool" in front of everyone else. What can I do to make him want to dance with me? Plus, I want this little town...
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  • I Won't Know Anyone

    I Won't Know Anyone



    Hi Edie, I've just recently logged on to your website and just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy it. It takes a special kind of person to open up their life for everyone else to read and I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate that kind of commitment.

    I've spent five years of my life engaged to a man who refused to dance with me because he'd mistaken my smiling on the dance floor for laughing at his dancing. I've been single for two years now and I've pledged
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  • Off Beat in Paris

    Off Beat in Paris



    Dear Edie,
    I recently went to [city] with my boyfriend. We live in Paris where his dancing gets much praise. He is a competent dancer but he lacks creativity and he thinks his way is the only way. He became very threatened by seeing the [city] dancers including one very fine [dance instructor ] (male) whom we had met previously in Paris The dance instructor is really nice (was not at all flirty or inappropriate with me). My boyfriend's vibrations were so negative and he was
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  • Do Us All A Favor

    Do Us All A Favor



    Carry breath fresheners, and gum with you in the club, at ALL times.






    Happy Dancing!
    - Edie, The Salsa FREAK!!
    www.SalsaFreak.com



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  • Sex-Starved Women?

    Sex-Starved Women?


    Figure #1: "Fantasy Land"

    "Dear Edie,
    I've been noticing lately that women are far more sexually aggressive these days than men. Wow. It's like, I just wanna dance, but lately, it seems they always want something more. I feel like some of them are sex-starved or something.
    - Concerned for today's modern Salsera"


    Dear "Concerned for today's modern Salsera",
    GET OVER YOURSELF. IT'S NOT "YOU"... IT'S YOUR "LEAD". It's more probable th...
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  • Don't be Naive

    Don't be Naive


    Be friendly, but not naive!


    This is good advice, especially for the ladies.

    If you're out to dance and have fun, just dance and have fun. Dance with as many different men as you can. This will turn-off anyone who has different intentions for you.

    However, if you're going dancing and out for something more than just dancing, don't let the whole world know about it. Be specific, quietly, and have some class. Nobody wants to deal with an obn...
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  • Respect Other's Significant Others

    Respect Other's Significant Others



    Always respect other men's girlfriends or significant others
    - you sometimes may not know it, but if you "suspect" that person is "taken", ask the significant "other" if you may dance with thier wife/spouse/girlfriend/partner, whatever. Believe me, they appreciate it, and will respect you for it. 90% of the time, they will be more than happy to let you dance with their significant "other".

    I've even had some ladies thank me and say "Oh please do, because I'd like to dance...
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  • A Sad Ella

    A Sad Ella


    "Dear Edie, I've been dancing for a year now, and absolutely love it,...I have recently moved in with my long-term boyfriend...and I am a bit sad because we always end up having an argument when I drag him along to a night (he usually doesn't want to come with me) Does it really mean the end of a relationship if your man doesn't dance, doesn't want to make an effort, doesn't like the people , and doesn't particularly like the music? But I get on well with him otherwise...... - A Sad...
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  • Doomed in New York

    Doomed in New York

    "Hi Edie: I have encountered a problem in my search for a Salsa dance partner in New York City and am wondering if you had any ideas. I am a natural born Salsera in my mid 30s who has been dancing Salsa all my life!! I would like to hook up with a male dance partner (intermediate to advanced) to practice at least once a week here in the NYC clubs. The problem I have encountered is the fact that I am married. My husband is a gringo who has tried to go dancing with me, we have even ta...
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  • The Salsa Wife

    The Salsa Wife

    "Dear Edie, I love the Salsa FREAK website, it's so entertaining & I can really appreciate the "down to earth" answers that you give to almost every question under the sun. However, I have a question for you that you may not have had before and I could appreciate some insight and wisdom from you. I am a beginning Salsera (been taking lessons since February) and I am ADDICTED. I can totally relate to you when you talk about needing to get your "fix." I take lessons twice a week and go o...
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    Dear Edie,
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    11-19-2012, 04:03 PM
  • The Dream
    by ediester


    Edie, I hope you remember "Bust my Ass with Class" Mary. You were too kind to print my article about my competition a couple of years ago. During which you were laboring under a double groin pull which I do soooo hope is healed by now! Okay, what follows below is a wonderful letter from a new friend of mine. Oh, as far as publishing this one, maybe no, not without editing (the boyfriend thing) & not without asking her permission but I know you & you would do these things with...
    11-19-2012, 03:49 PM
  • The Positive Side of Salsa
    by bcali
    "Dear Edie, Thanks Edie for talking to me about getting started in Salsa. I wish there were more people like you that really promoted the positive side of Salsa. What I have to say is a little commentary about where I see Salsa going. It is very interesting to just study the social scene of Salsa and in particular why oddly enough when I chose a place to live in the next 5 years it will have to be around a place where Salsa is very positive. Before I moved to Colorado, I was in Korea a...
    11-19-2012, 03:43 PM
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